Men sometimes are driven by ego and sex, while the women can holster their sexuality when interacting with the opposite sex.

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There was no way in hell Charles was going to leave Celeste alone until he got to the bottom of what ailed the Spitfire.  He hears her whimpers in the bathroom while taking a bath as he sat down by the door hearing her mumble out about a man named Westin.  His eyes open wide in realization the boy must have been her first time lover.  Charles walks away quietly and decides to make the cowgirl a dinner until she came out of the tub and talked with him.  Celeste finally comes out of the restroom with her hair wrapped up in a towel and sits at the kitchen table with swollen red eyes.  “Here drink some coffee babe and let me brush out your hair.”  Celeste complied without a peep and drinks her hot brew while Charles took on the heavy responsibility in brushing her long hair free of knots.  Mr. Spencer waits for a few moments in silence to figure out how to approach the topic of relationships between man and woman.  Celeste is lifeless and unyielding in solitude when Charles began.  “Celeste I’ve known you for a while and feel that you might need information on understanding relationships.  Do you mind if I enlighten your education?”  Celeste didn’t say a word, she sat with open ears when Charles begun.

“Men sometimes are driven by ego and sex, while the women can holster their sexuality when interacting with the opposite sex.  Many men are like porpoises. They have no shut off switch in their brain so they keep consuming. Ego and the id control their lives.  Most men cannot look at a woman without sizing her up sexually. And regardless of a “friendship” in the making, the male ego continues prodding him to view women sexually. In many ways, it’s not about the sex. It’s about consumption. The male ego works to prevent him from turning off the sexual switch. This is not about love or romance. It’s about sex. But, sex is only the result of the behavior. Ego is the driver. I want what I want when I want it. And this really gets in the way of men and women forging bonds as people. Of course women play a major role in managing these platonic relationship, but ultimately the solution has to come from the guys. Males need to be educated at an early age to treat girls and then women as equals and always with respect.”  Celeste feels the pulling of the brush when she speaks out, “Are you saying sir that humans are no different than animal behavior when attraction is prominent between man and woman?”  Charles thought a few moments before answering, “Yes if you think about it, we humans are no different than animals; however, some animals as you know mate for life. In animals when their time to mate is presence, the males work up an appetite to woo their girl to couple and that means if they kill their own species while doing it than its the law of their mating game to eliminate.  The female can pick and chose her mate who would be a great provider in years to come; nevertheless, the canines of this world will breed to any species when heat sessions in the female is strong.  She will let multiple male dogs mount her, they have no ownership but doing the wild thing.  With humans its different since we feel ownership when we couple sometimes.  A relationship can’t survive if one is selfish, it takes a lot of hard work to sacrifice and endure the hardships along with the joy of being loved.  Sex isn’t everything Celeste and people use the beauty of two people coming together as a crutch of security to express themselves in forgiveness or desire.”

Charles sat the brush down on the table when he finished combing out her long hair.  “You’ll go through many relationships little one until you find the perfect person who compliments and brings out the best in you.”  Celeste chewed on her lip in deep thought before speaking out, “Why do we feel so many deep mix up emotions when we get into relationships?”  Charles smiled at the witty clever young woman, “If I knew that answer I would be a hot to trot stud not caring about anyone else but myself.” Charles watches her lips curl up in a smile, “If we didn’t experience these types of emotions then what’s the use of being a human being? How do we learn what we like or dislike without going through the emotions of coupling.  To me it’s a lesson in life that can make you or break you.  Often times us humans are screwed up and they bring to the table their pass dysfunctional relationships and living a bad childhood life.  There are beautiful people out there willing to show and express love to help another find their way in society, but often they realize they can’t make a horse drink water if they are not thirsty.  It takes the screwed up person time to educate themselves to accept a persons help unconditionally and willing to make a change in themselves.  Sometimes it takes people forever who set their standards so high they are never met while they search for the right mate, most end up living alone.  I don’t know Celeste I’m not an expert on relationships, but I hope I have helped you a little bit.”  Celeste gives Charles a stern gaze, “A little yes thank you.  I’m sorry Charles for being a piss butt to you, I didn’t mean to say those ugly things to you.  It’s just sometimes I keep getting the short end of the stick when I put myself out there.  I’m so naive at times in understanding the human brain and our bodies that I’m sure there is no perfect relationship in this world.”  Charles smiles at Celeste and dishes out a hot bowl of stew he made.  “You being upset is very valid Celeste you have to go through the thinking process before change can be made. You know Celeste, I’ve missed our lengthy stimulating conversations.”  For the rest of the night Charles stayed with Celeste and had a long sleepless night discussing different relationships in general.  And in the end since Charles was the only person she trusted to give her solid information, she let her guard down to share with Charles what happen to dog and Westin.

 

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